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I'm the only one left in my family. All my brothers and my sister have died, as well as my wife (we didn't have any children). Sometimes I feel so lonely I even think about taking my own life, although I know that would be wrong. How can God help a lonely old man like me?


Whenever someone writes to say they’re thinking about taking their own life, I wish I could sit down with them and do everything I possibly could to encourage them and persuade them not to take that final, drastic step. No matter how hard life has gotten, I know that with God there is hope.

And I believe God has a special concern for those who are lonely. After all, He knows what loneliness is, for no one was ever lonelier than His Son on the cross. Not only had all His disciples fled when He was arrested, but all Satan’s forces were arrayed against Him.

Most of all, as the Bible says, He endured the greatest loneliness of all by being separated from God. This happened because He was bearing our sins. No cry of loneliness was ever greater than those words of Jesus from the cross: “My God, my God, why have you forsaken me?” (Matthew 27:46). He did it for one reason: He loves us.

The most important truth you will ever discover is that God loves you. He loves you so much that He wants you to spend eternity with Him in heaven. Turn to Him today, and by faith ask Christ to come into your life. When we know Christ we are never alone. He is with us, and so are our fellow Christians. May God bless you.

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  1. Vincent bledsoe says:

    Prayers for help and blessings in God’s name, amen

  2. Wilma says:

    I can’t seem to find forgiveness from all the things I did wrong in my past. I have two grown sons who want nothing to do with me because of things I did in my life. I made so many mistakes and was so selfish in my younger years which affected their lives and ruined mine. These regrets seem to block any hope I have for true forgiveness. I have prayed for forgiveness many times, but never really feel that my prayers are getting through. How can I truly, once and for all, forgive myself and move into the love of God?

    1. BGEA says:

      We rejoice with you that you’re seeking God now. The Bible states, “You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart” (Jeremiah 29:13). Please visit to talk and pray with a member of our team so you can move into the love of God.

  3. Debra Glenn says:

    I’m so tired of the loneliness I have,and the heartache of being homeless and one son in prison the other son won’t except me for who I am, my family of six now won’t help they have their own problems don’t need me to be a burden on them. Don’t have money for rent or car, I don’t know how much more I can take, it’s been nine years and getting worse.

  4. mary ann kernodle says:

    I do feel alone. It is now just me and my brother in my family. My brother is not all that dependable.. He acts like he does not seem to care about what is happening to me or to anyone else. I sort of wonder what is going to happen to me when I become even older and then there is no one around to help me at all. Or there is actually no family at all left.

  5. M says:

    I often feel so alone. I really have no family I can depend on. My mother has dementia and lives with my husband and I. My earthly father and brother took my moms inheritance and assets, I fought hard but it was a battle I could not win. The sad thing is they did terrible things to dishonor me, to make me look bad. I lived my life to help others, my husband and I are Christians he does not understand he has children from his first marriage. Besides him I am alone on this earth. I gave my life to help others how can I be alone? I love God, I know he is there, I pray he will mend my wounds, and the wounds of my household. This has shaken us to the core. How can are families hate us for being Christians? Why are we constantly attacked?

    1. David Liverman says:

      Because you shine. The ones that shine are always prosecuted. God and shining are of one.