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Our son died from an overdose of antidepressants. He had struggled with depression for years, and maybe it finally got to him (although maybe it was accidental - we'll never know). He was a sincere Christian, but if he did take his life, does it mean he committed the unforgivable sin and lost his salvation? Obviously, this burdens us very much.


I always pray very intensely whenever I answer a question like this, because I know someone may be reading this who is contemplating suicide – and I don’t want to say anything that might encourage them to take that tragic final step. God loves them, and He wants to surround them with His love and give them hope. And He will, as they open their lives to Jesus Christ.

God knew your son’s mental situation, and suicide (if that’s even what it was in your son’s case) is not by itself the unforgivable sin. The only sin God cannot forgive is the sin of continually rejecting Him and scorning His offer of salvation. The Bible is clear: “He who has the Son has life; he who does not have the Son of God does not have life” (1 John 5:12). If your son had committed his life to Jesus Christ, you can be confident that he is now in God’s presence forever.

May God use this painful event to draw you closer to Himself. Tragedy makes some people bitter and causes them to turn away from God; it may also fill them with undeserved guilt. Don’t let this happen to you. Instead, turn to Christ and ask Him to help you discover His strength and peace during this difficult time. His promise is for you: “In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world” (John 16:33).

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  1. Kathy says:

    I have always loved Billy Graham! I cried when I watched his funeral on TV. Thank you all for everything!

  2. Melodee says:

    My son also took his own life 10 months ago on antidepressants. God promises, “He who believes in him shall have everlasting life.” Remember God is the truth. I’m still greiving but I have faith I will see him again through Christ.

  3. Lisa says:

    Please let Jesus save me.

  4. Anon says:

    I’m 38 yrs old & live with my abusive parents. My dad beat me until I was 16. ALWAYS told me I was “good 4 nothing”. True cause never been able 2 become independent. Never been able 2 make friends, & LITERALLY not 1 person loves me. Was blessed 2 find love in 1997, but my wife, who I never cheated on or abused (claimed I was mentally abusive though) left after 5yrs of marriage in 2007 due 2 drug addiction, depression, lost my job, then attempted suicide. I got clean, dedicated life 2 Christ, & went into ministry in 2010 but church went under in 2014. It was EVERYTHING 2 me & has ruined me! SO MUCH MORE 2 say, but after MUCH PRAYER I’ve decided 2 do it this week. I know I’ll lose much in heaven cause of it, but He loves me & it’s time.

  5. Janice Campbell says:

    I am so glad to read this! I have always wondered about this. Frank Latham, please don’t do it. There is still life to live and people to help that are less fortunate. I find that when I help someone, I don’t think about myself. Help others. You will feel better! I will pray for you! It will be all right…

  6. ShirleyAndrews says:

    I enjoy learning and reading about faith and look forward to receiving your ministry update, thankyou

  7. Fran says:

    This answer has been helpful and I will write to my friend immediately so she can reread it when she is overcome with guilt. Thank you

  8. priscilla brown says:

    This was very comorting for me and answered alot of Questions My son 26yrs. old took his life oct.1st.2012 on his baby boys second birthday most people think it was by acident he was saved and I would just like to know if he can be in heaven.

  9. Frank Latham says:

    I have been struggling with suicide for several years now because of severe depression. Now my 82 year old mother has recently had a stroke. She is rehabilitating well, but it is so hard for me to be a positive example for her, and encourage her. My family is positive for her, and for the most part they do not understand me or my feelings. I am 58 now, and retired from work. Suicide is something I contemplate daily, and my wife just tells me it is a coward’s way out. I ache, and no one understands. Thank you for listening.

    1. jason g says:

      I just stumbled on this page and read the comments. It was sad to read that you are feeling depressed and having thoughts of suicide… I will have some prayer that Gods peace, love and comfort are abundant for you, stay strong in christ. Love from you brother 🙂 God bless

    2. Shantell Brightman says:

      Dear Frank, I pray in the name of Jesus that you will be filled with the strength and courage you need to heal and move towards recovery from your pain. You are a not a coward and you can overcome suicidal thoughts. Sometimes people who love you dearly don’t know the right thing to say because they don’t want to lose you. There is always hope and you are not alone. I encourage you to reach out and call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at 1-800-273-8255. You will be connected to someone who understands your pain and can help you choose life. May the Lord heal your heart and give you peace beyond understanding. Amen.