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Our daughter (who's in her late 20s) seems to be suffering from deep depression, and we don't know what to do. She even talks about ending her life. She says she's a follower of Jesus, and we pray a lot for her, but it doesn't seem to help. Could you ask people to pray for her?


I’m sure many people reading this column will pause to pray for your daughter, for they can sense your deep concern for her as she bears this heavy burden. The Bible commands us to “pray for each other so that you may be healed” (James 5:16).

I strongly urge you seek the best medical advice you possibly can for your daughter, if you haven’t already done so. Prayer is important, but sometimes God answers our prayers through other people, including those to whom He has given special gifts and abilities. This includes men and women with scientific and medical skills; one of the Apostle Paul’s closest companions was Luke, whom he referred to as “the beloved physician” (Colossians 4:14, NKJV).

I’m not a doctor or psychiatrist, of course, but I understand that depression can have many different causes. Some (such as chemical imbalances in the brain) often respond to treatment, and you should do all you can to be sure your daughter is properly diagnosed. Your pastor or family doctor may be able to suggest the best options in your community.

In addition, let your daughter know that you’ll always love her, and that God loves her also, whether she “feels” His love or not. May she also find daily strength in the promises of His Word, the Bible. “Praise be to the Lord, to God our Savior, who daily bears our burdens” (Psalm 68:19).

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  1. Jennifer says:

    I am going through something similar in my 20s. I believe God delivered me from depression just last week but sometimes still get anxiety which often feels like depression. I am at least going to a doctor just for information and whether or not I take the meds, GOD will get the glory from delivering me from the depression. Remember that Christ who starts a good work in us will also bring it to pass. He is watching over her and He will protect her and you all. Thanks for posting this.

  2. Sylvia says:

    Thank you for saying above

  3. Melissa says:

    I will pray for you.