Growing Up With Billy Graham

By   •   January 28, 2014

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Jean Graham Ford — Billy Graham’s younger sister — and her husband, Leighton, recently sat on a discussion panel during a conference at Gordon-Conwell Theological Seminary’s Charlotte, N.C. campus. The conference, titled “Billy Graham and Modern Evangelism,” explored the ministry and legacy of Billy Graham. During their portion of the conference, the Fords candidly shared memories from a more personal perspective.

The Grahams at Home: Faith, Family and Farming

Jean Graham Ford began the panel discussion by describing her life as a Graham, growing up on a dairy farm in Charlotte, N.C. The family was important, and so was the farm. But, as she put it, faith took top priority: “We grew up in a very committed Christian home. We had prayer every day. No matter what we were doing, we would stop when it was time to pray. That means mother would read the Scripture, and Daddy would pray.”

Jean’s mother, Morrow Graham, went to college and taught piano. Ford describes her mother as “very sophisticated to be a farmer’s wife.”

She also spoke of the admiration she had for her father, William. “Daddy was wonderful and gentle, kind, soft-spoken. And Mother believed in the man being the head of the house, but she would ‘practice’ (being the head). Mother was the ‘boss!’”

Billy Graham: The Brother, the Preacher

Jean recalled that she was five years old the first time she heard her oldest brother—“Billy Frank” as the family called him—preach. The thing she remembers most about that event: She covered her ears because she thought his voice was too loud.

During the Los Angeles revival of 1949, Jean was in college. She may have covered her ears to his preaching as a child, but now the rest of the world began to open theirs to hear his message. In the process, it became surreal to her to see his name throughout various newspapers.

“My brother is wonderful. He’s sweet, and he’s kind. He has my father’s personality, and he has my mother’s drive,” she said of her older brother. “God put those two things together to make him who he is. And why God chose to use him is still a mystery.”

God even used her brother to introduce her to Leighton, her husband of 60 years.

“He met Leighton way before I met him. Billy came home and told me he met this wonderful ‘kid’ from Canada. I later met him, we fell in love, and I got him to propose,” she quipped.

Jean then shared a funny memory from her wedding, officiated by Billy Graham: “He had not done many weddings. He doesn’t even like to do weddings. During the ceremony, he said, ‘Now that Jean and Leighton have exchanged wings…’ And then my other brother Melvin laughed out loud. We still tease them about that all the time, because he has rarely made a mistake speaking.”

Billy Graham: The Leader

Under Billy Graham’s leadership, Leighton was an associate evangelist with BGEA for 30 years. Of all the things he could recall of Billy Graham’s leadership style were his consistency and his humility.

“Billy has been like an arrowhead—he has kept the sharp, cutting edge of the gospel. He is also a life-long learner—he kept asking questions. I heard him say one time to someone else in ministry, ‘You can probably teach me a lot.’ And that man was 40 years younger than Billy. That is a picture of the humility that is often spoken of concerning him.”

It was out of this humility, as both Fords describe, that God used Billy Graham to accomplish many things for God’s Kingdom.

Leighton told of a time when Billy asked him to begin alternating Sunday preaching on the radio program, Hour of Decision: “He was not one to tell me what I had to preach or how I had to preach. Left it as my decision, however the Lord guided.”

Jean shared similar sentiments on her brother’s leadership style, and believes any leader could takes some cues from him.

“I am intrigued that he’s done all that he has done without being any kind of a micro-manager. Never once did he tell someone how to do something. He just told them what needed to be done and let them do it,” she explained.

“And most importantly, he would pray for them.”

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61 Comments

  1. Shauwn Archer says:

    He is so awesome to listen too, just awesome!

  2. Patsy & Gary Lawson says:

    Praise God for your family.

  3. Karen P. Miller says:

    I was so fortunate to be exposed to the preaching of Billy Graham as a very young child. My Grandmother Kingsley and my music teacher would be my influence. My parents took us to the Baptist church when we were small, but as we became older my parents no longer attended so my brother and I would go to the Baptist church in the next town over with the music teacher and his family. I eventually started attending the Baptist church in my own Town of Wyoming, NY when I started to date a young man that went there to church. All the time I continued drinking in the words of Dr. Graham.as he grew and his ministry I grew in loving to hear him preach and renew my strength. Much has happen in my religious life, but I still enjoy listening to the messages from the Graham family.

  4. Paddi Akula says:

    Billy Graham is simply God’s servant and he carried the Jesus teachings widely spread as an apostle. The way Billy Graham preached the Bible is touching and very powerful that draw million of people in salvation and to be closer to God. Let Lord Jesus continuously wrap him in His precious arms of healing so that Billy can continue to serve The Lord. Love you Billy!

  5. Jayne Fountain says:

    God bless Mr Graham and ministry. Cliff Barrows and his wife were supporters of mine when I was on staff with Campus Crusade. Their daughter, Bonnie, was m suite mate. I met miss Ruth Graham and Mr. Bev Shea and worked some with Ted Smith at the msic conference following Explo 72. The entire team ministered to me greatly. I feel incredibly honored and grateful…

  6. Rosie MdDade says:

    I was intrigued to read this, very interesting & heart (felt) warming…

  7. Vicki Toth says:

    I have watched and read Billy for 50 years. What a great man of God! Thanks Billy!!

  8. Isabella Ndengeya says:

    We thank God for his life and the ministry which was placed upon him. May the good Lord give him great peace, joy and love. May he continue to cover him with the love and blood of Christ. May you remember him Lord when you open the book of life

  9. Sharon Gerber says:

    LOVED hearing these stories! Billy’s family should write a book!!! God BLESS you all!

  10. pat sanders says:

    I love Billy Graham. He is one the greats! I have watched him as a child and as an adult. He knows how to preach the world and is loved NY so many. I thank God he has been a part of my life.