Godly Wisdom for Suicide Prevention

By   •   September 9, 2010   •   Topics:

On World Suicide Prevention Day, which falls on Sept. 10, 2012, and National Suicide Prevention Week, Sept. 9 – 15, please take a moment to read these timeless answers from Billy Graham. While God is the only one who can truly save a life, you can play a part in suicide prevention.

“Whenever someone writes to say they’re thinking about taking their own life,” said Billy Graham, “I wish I could sit down with them and do everything I possibly could to encourage them and persuade them not to take that final, drastic step. No matter how hard life has gotten, I know that with God there is hope.”

Through the years in his My Answer column, Graham has responded to countless people struggling with suicidal thoughts of their own, or with loved ones contemplating suicide.

Writing to a couple who wondered whether their niece was serious when she threatened to end her own life, Graham said, “The worst thing that could happen would be for people around your niece to ignore what she is saying—and discover only after it’s too late that she was serious. Perhaps she isn’t—but most people who end up taking their lives send out at least some signals in advance.”

Graham understood that some suicides are preventable, which is the rallying cry of National Suicide Prevention Week, Sept. 9-15, and World Suicide Prevention Day on Sept. 10. These campaigns aim to raise awareness that suicide is preventable; improve education about suicide; and debunk myths surrounding the act.

According to the American Association of Suicidology, suicide was the third leading cause of death for young people in 2007. While suicides accounted for 1.4 percent of all deaths in the U.S. annually, they comprised 12.2 percent of all deaths among 15-24-year-olds.

The World Health Organization reports that almost 3,000 people commit suicide daily. And for every person who completes a suicide, 20 or more may attempt to end their lives.

But great despair, pain and loneliness doesn’t need to end in death. There is hope—eternal hope—in a relationship with Jesus Christ.

“Suicide is extremely serious and tragic in God’s eyes,” said Graham, “and if someone who is reading this is contemplating suicide, I beg of you to reconsider and seek help for whatever your problem may be. God loves you—whether you believe it or not—and He does not want you to end your life. Satan does, however—and you must not listen to him.”

Instead, “put your faith and hope in Christ and His love for you. You are never alone if you know Him,” Graham added, “because nothing ‘will be able to separate us from the love of God that is in Christ Jesus our Lord’ (Romans 8:39).”

Turn to Him today, and by faith ask Christ to come into your life. “When we know Christ we are never alone,” said Graham. “He is with us, and so are our fellow Christians.”

Reach out for His loving hand today, and Save a Life—your own—for eternity.

If you need to talk to someone right away, please call 1-877-247-2426 or email help@bgea.org

Articles and some of Billy Graham’s columns about suicide:

To my horror, I found my wife had overdosed on my heart medicine and was dying before my eyes. A letter on my pillow said, “Forgive me, Eddie, but life just hurts too much.” Frantic, I called an ambulance, and she was rushed to the hospital where they pumped her stomach and saved her life.
Read ‘Love in Action’ »

I’ve just gotten out of the hospital after trying to take my own life. Things are better with me now and I don’t plan to go down that road again, but how can I be sure I won’t? Will God help me?
Read Billy Graham’s Answer »

I’ve just been diagnosed with an incurable disease that will leave me weaker and in more and more pain as the months go by. Can you give me any reason not to take my own life right now?
Billy Graham responds »

Our son died from an overdose of antidepressants. He had struggled with depression for years, and maybe it finally got to him (although maybe it was accidental – we’ll never know). He was a sincere Christian, but if he did take his life, does it mean he committed the unforgivable sin and lost his salvation?
Read Billy Graham’s answer »

Last year, a friend of mine committed suicide after a long battle with mental illness. I feel so guilty, because I should have seen the signs of what was happening and tried to help him but I didn’t. Can I ever put these feelings behind me?
Hope from Billy Graham »

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  1. Thokozani says:

    please pray for my mom, last year October 28 we were involved in car accident and I lost my dad when the car flipped over the road, so now she feel too much burdens in her life, she even think to commit suicidal her name is Londiwe, I trust God never fails, we are Christians. Thanks.

  2. cynthia lopez says:

    Please pray for my friend, Daniel. The enemy has got a hold on him and my dear friend is now contemplating suicide but he is trying to fight it. I have reached out to HIm about God and how God forgives him and loves him but He needs us to intercede for him. Please join me in prayer for my friend. He has 4 beautiful children and a wonderful wife. I know a lot of us would hurt so much if he did this. Appreciate you all. God bless you.

  3. Elisa says:

    I still struggle with suicidal thoughts here and there, but gradually God is helping me demolish the semons that try to convince me that my life is not worth living, there is hope in christ today, tomorrow , forever more and now i know and now im free. If anyone just so happens to still bd struggling with suicidal thoughts : i want you to know that the devil is a lie! You are more than worth it! You are lived beyond the wildest imagination . I pray that you turn to christ for the peace, comfort and love you have always been looking for. You matter. Yes, you do. You are awsome! You are so important that someone was willing to die on a cross for you. Please seek help, call out to someone. Please. This world does not need to lose another awesome person! you have gifts/talents (wether they are uncommon are not) think of the amazing turn around that can happen if you just hold on . Please. You’re not alone ! please. Seek help. YOU WHO ARE THINKING OF SUICIDE : PLEASE TRY TO UNDERSTAND THAT YOUR LIFE IS SO PRECIOUS AND YOU ARE SO PRECIOUS. PLEASE SEEK HELP FROM CHRIST AND ANOTHER RELIABLE ADULT ! ! Please.

    1. S says:

      Thank you so so so much. I’ve been struggling with depression/anxiety. I needed to hear that right now.

      God bless. xoxo

    2. Minty says:

      Glad I found this…thank u. i’ve been struggling with suicide for a long time and it seems no one gets it…