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By BGEA Admin • December 19, 2018 • Topics: Parenting, Worry
Q:
Disabilities are looked at differently today than when I was a child in the 1940s. Still I am worried about my teenage granddaughter who does have a physical disability which causes her anxiety, especially when she compares herself to other girls in school, and particularly when they make fun of her. Should I be worried about this or will she naturally grow to accept this and be content?
A:
From the writings of the Rev. Billy Graham
Society has indeed become more aware of ways to help those who suffer from physical and emotional disabilities. There was a day when places of businesses were not required to offer wheelchair ramps, for instance. But children are prone to be too outspoken, lacking compassion to peers who struggle in life.
We should be concerned and do all we can to help the disabled. There are many wonderful stories and books today about “overcomers” who persevere in their weaknesses. We all have weaknesses in some area. Encouragement goes a long way in bolstering a person’s attitude. The Lord often uses others to challenge us, and He also desires that we look into His Word for hope.
Joni Eareckson Tada’s story lifts spirits not only of the disabled, but anyone who has read her books, seen the movie “Joni,” or enjoyed her painting and music. An exciting life was ahead of her until a diving accident put her in a wheelchair. But today she travels the world pointing others to the Lord Jesus as her source of strength and creativity. She is an overcomer and an example of how valuable we are to God—no matter what we face. “You are of God… and have overcome … because He who is in you is greater than he who is in the world” (1 John 4:4).
(This column is based on the words and writings of the late Rev. Billy Graham.)
