By   •   June 19, 2007   •   Topics: ,


I never knew my mother, because she died when I was very young. Will I recognize her when I get to heaven? And will she recognize me? This bothers me, because I've heard that the Bible says somewhere that in heaven we won't remember the former things.


I have no doubt that in heaven your mother will recognize you, and you will recognize her—even if you never knew each other on earth. When King David’s infant son died, David declared, “I will go to him” (2 Samuel 12:23).

Perhaps you are thinking of Isaiah 65:17: “Behold, I will create new heavens and a new earth. The former things will not be remembered, nor will they come to mind.” But this verse has nothing to do with whether or not we will be reunited with our loved ones in heaven if we know Christ. Instead, it gives us a great promise: Someday all the sins and pains and failures of this world will be over, and we will be with Christ forever.

More than that, God has promised that in heaven nothing—even the memory of this world’s sin and pain—will cast a shadow over the joy He has in store for us there. Think about that for a moment. In this world, even the memory of what someone did to us years ago can still cause us pain. But that won’t be true in heaven, because our focus won’t be on the past but on Christ and what He means to us.

In the meantime, make it your goal to walk with Jesus every day. Do you know Him? If not, make your commitment to Him today. Then take comfort in His promise: “I am going there (to heaven) to prepare a place for you” (John 14:2).

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  1. Jason says:

    Hey my name is Jason Farmer and I just wanted to know if I will get to hang out with my loved ones in heaven

  2. Tony Richardson says:

    I can’t wait to see Jesus face to face!!

  3. RANDY says:

    i miss my mom sooooo much. will i see her again?

  4. Elbert Black says:

    Learning about Jesus Christ.

  5. Cindy Scott says:

    I had a wonderful relationship with my parents.
    My grief and concern is that our relationship won’t be the same in heaven???

  6. Lisa says:

    Does God have angels to help us with problems in a marriage? Do they protect? Do they guide?

    1. BGEA says:

      Hi Lisa,

      Please read this article from Billy Graham to help answer your questions.

      My Answer

      – BGEA staff

  7. Erik says:

    I too have wondered this. My human mind cannot comprehend a place where I may not know my loved ones. They mean everything to me, and my love for them cannot be told by words. That said, I believe our new bodies will have new minds not bound by human attachments. I believe we will love all equally, for God’s love is perfect and eternal, and knows no bounds.

  8. charla antonio says:

    i have been struggling in faith lately. i’m so far from where i should be. i have heard that the end of time is coming soon. i have two small children and it has been bothering because i want to see them grow up and i’m afraid i will never get to. and when we die and go to heaven, will they remember that i am their mother?

  9. Jeffrey E young says:

    GOD is sooooooo good

  10. robert west says:

    praise the lord