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What did Jesus mean when He said to let the dead bury the dead? I've heard it quoted many times, but it doesn't make any sense. It must have a hidden meaning, but I've never heard anyone explain it.


One day Jesus invited a man to follow Him and become His disciple—but the man refused. He said he would follow Jesus later, but first he wanted to go bury his father. Jesus responded, “Follow me, and let the dead bury their own dead” (Matthew 8:22).

What did He mean by this? Jesus wasn’t saying that people who were physically dead should bury other dead people; as you say, that wouldn’t make sense. Instead He was speaking of those who were spiritually dead—those who were alive physically but dead toward God in their souls. We may be very strong and healthy physically, and yet be spiritually dead—which is far more serious.

To us Jesus’ words to this man might sound harsh—but that is because we don’t understand what the man was really saying. When someone in Jesus’ day said they wanted to go bury their father, it didn’t necessarily mean he was already dead. Instead they really were saying that they wanted to stay with their father until he died—something that might be years away. This man was simply looking for an excuse to avoid becoming Jesus’ disciple.

What keeps you from following Jesus as you should? Almost anything can come between us and God; the devil will make sure of that. But Jesus’ call has not changed: “If anyone would come after me, he must deny himself and take up his cross daily and follow me” (Luke 9:23).

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  1. Cynthia Daniel says:

    Thank you for this clear and concise explanation. I understand and will apply this to my life.

  2. Lesha101 says:

    This indeed was very helpful.

  3. m. Steven says:

    thanks, I recently, buried my mother & i find closure & peace when I visit her grave site & know where her empty shell lies; I also heard a pastor say,he make extra visits to the graveyard & was wondering why he said it

  4. Oliver Taylor says:

    I would like more teaching on spiritually dead

  5. carol crowe says:

    I enjoyed the explanation of the phrase let the dead bury their dead.

  6. Brian Neves says:

    Very nice and helpful

  7. Deborah H. says:

    The answer is very helpful. I told my sister that I thought this was saying as the people that don’t believe in God that they are dead and that’s why Jesus said let the dead bury the dead. I read a my bible, but I don’t know how to break a verse down and get the understanding I need from it, can you help me. Thank you…..

  8. DESTINEY Lawrence says:

    Very helpful

    1. Paul Miller says:

      Hi Deborah, I would suggest that you get a study bible which will break it down for you better. But as a Christian you must alwaysalways pray for the spirit to open up your understanding before you read the bible n get a study partner too.

  9. J.J. Smith says:

    Your definition and understandings if the Bible are very helpful.

  10. malak says:

    love to find out about how jesus really excpted how we are sinners