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How does one pray? I’ve never been taught how to say a personal prayer or really talk to God.


There is no formula to prayer—it is simply conversing with God. It is essentially talking with God as you would talk with an earthly parent who loves you and wants the best for you. God is your heavenly Father who loves you perfectly.

The ACTS model will be helpful to you as you learn how to pray. ACTS stands for Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving, and Supplication.

• Adoration means worship. We encourage you to begin your time of prayer by adoring and praising God. Praise Him for who He is and for all that He has done for you. God delights in your praises!

• Confession, the next component, means agreeing with God about the things that you have done wrong. It’s a time to express sorrow about what you have said, thought, or done that is not pleasing to Him. Ask God to forgive you for these things, and then believe that He does so freely. When you confess your sins, you receive God’s cleansing and this helps to remove any barrier in your communication with Him (read 1 John 1:9).

• Thanksgiving basically means being thankful to God. Thank Him for His love, protection, and provision just to name a few things.

• Supplication is the final component, and this means praying for your needs and for the needs of others, such as friends, family, your pastor, missionaries, government leaders, and persecuted Christians around the world. You may want to pray for such things as God’s guidance, wisdom, and opportunities to serve.

Keep in mind that the ACTS model serves as a guide to help you, not a rigid formula to follow. There is no “canned” approach that you need to take; just talk from your heart. There are additional steps that will help. Set aside a specific time to pray each day.

Pick a quiet place where you can be alone with God. You will also find a special blessing if you begin your time by reading the Bible. Select a passage to read (download a Bible reading plan) and spend some time thinking about it deeply. Reflect on what God is impressing on your heart to you through the passage.

Ask God to help you apply what you are learning. God wants you to share your heart with Him, and He wants to share His heart with you—this can take place anytime, day or night!

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  1. sally johnson says:

    Than you, your advice is very helpful

  2. Agono joseph says:

    Thanks alot.

  3. Patricia says:

    I’ve been a Christian for most of my life but recently heard a statement that has me stumped. 1 Thess 5:17 says “pray without ceasing.” However, in a discussion in a small group study, the facilitator commented that once we have prayed and asked God for His help, that we should NOT continue to pray for the same request; we would not trust God enough to believe He would answer that prayer. Will you please help me understand this? Praising Him, Patricia

    1. Ryan says:

      I have heard this statement said as well before. Unfortunately the Bible teaches different. Yes, we are to “pray and do not doubt.” But Jesus taught also to “pray and not give up.” Luke 18:1 Read Luke 18:1-8. After doing that you pray, keep praying and don’t stop praying! Much love in Jesus, Ryan

  4. Miriam says:

    Thank you. I will try the ACTS model in my prayer time.

  5. odeyemi Samuel says:

    Thank u !

  6. rey says:

    be bless and more power

  7. RODNEY M KEHL says:

    This short answer to my question has been an entire volume of knowledge of knowledge for me.

  8. bob wills says:

    Yes there is a way to pray. Read the Bible and see how these people prayed and got their prayers answered. You do the same that will result in answered prayer.

  9. michael says:

    Wanting or needing to feel Christ in my life. Am so blessed and at the same time so empty. I know Christ died for my sins but to feel the love of God is missing when I pray.

    1. Encourager ThroughChrist says:

      I know how you feel. I went through the exact same thing. Then at the peak of my doubt I attended a convention and God provided the head, heart, hands, together approach for me. Once your head is straight, your heart is right, you can get your hands dirty for Christ together with your family and friends. I recommend you surround yourself with believers, because others will turn you astray. I also recommend you read Psalms 73, it really describes it all!.

  10. Aloysius H. Nwuzi says:

    Thanks for your holistic guidance on FACTS of prayer. It’s very precise and simple. I would want a daily bible reading plan to guide my spiritual growth.