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My boyfriend says if I loved him I would have sex with him. What should I do?
Billy Graham writes, "I pray you will not compromise your moral standards. God will honor you for keeping yourself sexually pure."

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I think we need more love in the world, don't you?
Billy Graham writes, "Who could disagree with the idea that we need more love in the world? ... But why don't we love others? Why are there so many wars going on in the world?"

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I have a very hard time believing that God loves me because my own father was abusive. How can I believe in God's love?
Billy Graham writes, "Parents may not love us as they should—but God does. We know it because Jesus Christ was willing to die for us."

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As far as my girlfriend and I are concerned, marriage is just a piece of paper. We've been living together for three years now, and we're perfectly happy the way we are. What would you say to us?
Billy Graham writes, "Have you ever asked yourselves what marriage is in God's eyes? To Him, marriage isn't just a nice social custom or a useful legal arrangement."

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I'm tempted to go on the Internet and sign up for one of those dating services. Do you think that would be a good idea?
Billy Graham writes, "The most important advice I can give you is for you to turn this very important area of your life over to God."

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My cousin is mad at me because I told her she loves her dogs more than she loves her family. That may sound funny but it's true.
Billy Graham writes, "Few things can get us in as much trouble as our words—and few things can be more helpful to others, if we learn to speak wisely and out of love."

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My husband has just been sentenced to prison for several years. I still love him, and he says he still loves me. What would you advise me to do?
Billy Graham writes, "I strongly urge you not only to maintain your marriage, but also to make it grow even stronger during this difficult time. With God's help, it can happen."

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My boyfriend and I have been living together but he still refuses to get married. What do you think his problem is?
Billy Graham writes, "He actually has two problems, I suspect—and I hope you both can face them and deal with them honestly. If you don't, I see little hope for your long-term relationship."

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Don't you think all our problems would be solved if we just could learn to love each other?
Billy Graham writes, "We don't have the power to love others the way we should. Our basic problem, the Bible says, is within us—within our own hearts and minds."

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The romance has faded from my marriage. Is it possible to love someone, but still not be in love with them?
Billy Graham writes, "True love says, 'I am committed to you, and I will do everything I can to help you and encourage you.'"

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I left my husband a few months ago, and now I've gotten involved with another man. I don't know how I got into this mess.
Billy Graham writes, "Right now, you may feel lonely and unloved, and perhaps this is why you've gotten into the relationship. But it will never provide the love and emotional security you crave."

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What, in your opinion, is the most important characteristic of a Christian?
Billy Graham wrties, "God wants us to be like Christ, and when we take this seriously we won't want to leave out anything that is good or right."

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I have been married for three months, and I'm wondering if we made a bad mistake. Wouldn't it be better to get out now?
Billy Graham writes, "Many couples experience what you're going through, and I sincerely hope you won't let these 'bumps in the road' discourage you or make you do something wrong."

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My parents are opposed to my engagement because my fiancé isn't a member of a church, but I wish they'd see his kindness.
Billy Graham writes, "Life's greatest joy comes from walking with Christ—and that joy is multiplied when a husband and wife walk together with Him."

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My parents are always getting after me because I'm in my mid-30s and haven't gotten married yet.
Billy Graham writes, "Perhaps a gentle word from you will help them understand your feelings. (Avoid arguing, however; it will only make things worse.)"

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Why do I make so many wrong decisions? I've been married (and divorced) four times.
Billy Graham writes, "Others may mistreat you or abandon you—but God never will, for He loves you and wants you to be part of His family forever."

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I guess my wife and I have just slowly drifted apart over the years, and now I don't know what to do about it. Is it too late?
Billy Graham writes, "No, it's not too late to reverse what has happened—if you both are willing to change. I hope you are, because God gave you to each other and He doesn't want your relationship to come to an end."

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My fiancé and I are getting married next month, and I wonder if you have any advice to give us.
Billy Graham writes, "There is much I could say—but the most important advice I could ever give you is to make Christ the center and the foundation of your life together."

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My husband says he loves me, but he loves sitting in front of the TV more than he loves me. Should I just call it quits and start over?
Billy Graham writes, "I sincerely hope you won't give up on your marriage, but that you will do all you can to renew and rebuild it. And I believe it can be restored, with God's help—because God cares for you and wants your marriage to be strong."

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I've just discovered my boyfriend has been dating someone else. I thought I could trust him. How can I keep from feeling there isn't any hope?
Billy Graham writes, "If your boyfriend's love wasn't sincere, isn't it better for you to find it out now than later on? I know this is a deep emotional blow right now, but in time I suspect you'll actually be thankful for it."