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I'm old and sick and stuck in a nursing home now, and I don't understand why God even keeps me alive. I'm tired of living and I want to go to Heaven -- the sooner the better. Is it wrong for me to ask God to take me?


The older we get, the closer we get to Heaven, if our faith is in Christ and His promises. And the closer we get to Heaven, the more we’ll want to go there — particularly when life’s burdens press down upon us. The Apostle Paul declared, “I desire to depart and be with Christ, which is better by far” (Philippians 1:23).

Don’t feel guilty, then, about asking the Lord to take you to Heaven. But don’t make that your only prayer! As long as we’re on this earth, God has His reasons for keeping us here, and we should ask Him to show us what they are. The Bible says, “The righteous will flourish. … They will still bear fruit in old age” (Psalm 92: 12, 14).

No, you may not be able to do everything you once did, and you may find that frustrating; I sometimes do. But God isn’t finished with us until He takes us home. I often think, for example, of the countless people who have prayed for our ministry over the years (and continue to do so). Many were elderly and infirm, but countless thousands have come to Christ because of their prayers.

In addition, ask God to help you be a witness of Christ’s love and peace to those around you. The Bible says, “We have put our hope in the living God, who is the Savior of all people, and especially of those who believe” (1 Timothy 4:10).

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  1. Rolfe says:

    Every night when I go to bed I ask for God to “take me.” I think that i am ugly. I am alone, I do not have a job. I am facing homelessness. I have made a lifetime of poor decisions. My life is meaningless. The prospect of growing old, alone and broke is very real and more than I am willing to accept. So why do I want God to take me? Why not?

  2. Brittany says:

    Ever since I turned my life back to God. The moment I did. Satan has nothing but attacking me. Mind body and soul … I ask God to help me with this And ask him not to hold anything against me. I ask him to help me. Or take me home. I’m getting to the point I’m worrying myself to death. My mental and physical health is going down hill. I just keep taking meds hoping that it will help me. I’m tired of this world I want all this to stop. I want to go home to my father. I cry out to God to help me and have mercy on me. I hate this world … I tell God if he helps me. I tell him I will do his will . even though it cost me my life. I feel I have hit the bottom of the well. I tell God I can’t take it anymore.

    1. Mari BK says:

      All that you said is exactly how I feel. I have all this love within me and want to share and give it to people but it seems like everyone just hurts and deserts me. I gave my life to God and a lot of positoves have been happening and things that I couldnt or didnt want to see are so clear now. I’m tired, cold inside and lonely and this world hasn’t gotten any better or will. If something were to happen to me and i had a chance to stay or go to Heaven i’m leaving here without any hesitations. God I don’t know what you have instore for me but it must be big and I pray that I make you proud and that you forgive me of all my wrong doings past, present and future. These demons keep taunting and haunting me but still I rise. I yearn for YOU

  3. edward says:

    I been asking God for a while to take me and no luck. God has his reasons I do not know why, but I know God knows best. I will continue to plead with him to take me as I will say you do the same.

  4. Oscar says:

    Within the last year both my mother and my partner of 26 years died. I ask them both to help me to get to heaven peacefully. But I realize that up in Heaven there must be many steps to getting there the major one which must be God’s readiness to take you. Still the desire to get to Heaven and be with my love ones is strong and psychologically difficult to get away from. God Bless

  5. JERRY says:

    Is it ok to ask God to take you

  6. Connie says:

    As much as we all want to be in Heaven, I truly believe I'm still here to help family and friends see the Light that shines through me from the Holy Spirit that lives in me. I'm 56 and was recently diagnosed with an aggressive malignant brain tumor.

  7. Vicki says:

    My husband prays every day God takes him home. I often wonder if he is right in doing so. Now i have peace about it. What he don't realize because of ALZ is the closer he is to heaven the sweeter he gets. Amen.