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How does one pray? I’ve never been taught how to say a personal prayer or really talk to God.


There is no formula to prayer—it is simply conversing with God. It is essentially talking with God as you would talk with an earthly parent who loves you and wants the best for you. God is your heavenly Father who loves you perfectly.

The ACTS model will be helpful to you as you learn how to pray. ACTS stands for Adoration, Confession, Thanksgiving, and Supplication.

• Adoration means worship. We encourage you to begin your time of prayer by adoring and praising God. Praise Him for who He is and for all that He has done for you. God delights in your praises!

• Confession, the next component, means agreeing with God about the things that you have done wrong. It’s a time to express sorrow about what you have said, thought, or done that is not pleasing to Him. Ask God to forgive you for these things, and then believe that He does so freely. When you confess your sins, you receive God’s cleansing and this helps to remove any barrier in your communication with Him (read 1 John 1:9).

• Thanksgiving basically means being thankful to God. Thank Him for His love, protection, and provision just to name a few things.

• Supplication is the final component, and this means praying for your needs and for the needs of others, such as friends, family, your pastor, missionaries, government leaders, and persecuted Christians around the world. You may want to pray for such things as God’s guidance, wisdom, and opportunities to serve.

Keep in mind that the ACTS model serves as a guide to help you, not a rigid formula to follow. There is no “canned” approach that you need to take; just talk from your heart. There are additional steps that will help. Set aside a specific time to pray each day.

Pick a quiet place where you can be alone with God. You will also find a special blessing if you begin your time by reading the Bible. Select a passage to read (download a Bible reading plan) and spend some time thinking about it deeply. Reflect on what God is impressing on your heart to you through the passage.

Ask God to help you apply what you are learning. God wants you to share your heart with Him, and He wants to share His heart with you—this can take place anytime, day or night!

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  1. Tameka says:

    Can’t wait to start learning about what it means to pray and also how to pray to make sure that God understands me. Thank you for the guidence! 😁

  2. Bulimu jackson says:

    Thanks to find your through internet,I am very happy to be in touch with your teachings and sending me your ACTS UPDATE 2016.

  3. D says:

    Dear Lord God Almighty I pray to you with all my heart and love for you

  4. akash.majkure says:

    Heavenly father thank u for all the things u have given me I need u to guide me in a right way I m a sinner I want u to forgive my sins …

  5. Dusty says:

    Praise be to our heavenly Father for the Billy Graham ministry.

  6. Robert Hernandez says:

    God I ask you tonight to restore my life, finances, cover your grace on all of my family,

  7. Robert Hernandez says:

    I am a falling Christian, God forgive me, as I forgive all my brothers and sisters in Christ.

  8. Clarita says:

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