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Does God ever give up on us? I wouldn't be surprised if He's given up on me because I can't count how many times I've told Him I'll live a better life, and then I forget all about it. He must be very disappointed in me.


God doesn’t give up on us until we give up on Him. Only when we repeatedly turn our backs on Him and stubbornly refuse His offer of forgiveness will He finally let us go. The Bible warns, “A man who remains stiff-necked after many rebukes will suddenly be destroyed—without remedy” (Proverbs 29:1).

Have you reached that point? No, you haven’t; if you had, you wouldn’t be writing me or worrying about your salvation. The person who is in the most danger spiritually is the one who doesn’t care about his or her spiritual state. Don’t let that ever become true of you!

But your question concerns me, nevertheless, because it suggests that you have misunderstood what God expects of you. Does God just want you to behave better? To put it another way, does God promise to reward you with eternal life if you’ll just try hard enough? Or does God want something else from you? The answer is “Yes”—God does want something else, and that “something” is for you to give your life to Jesus Christ.

You see, we are separated from God because of our sins, and our greatest need is to be forgiven and cleansed of them. This is why Jesus Christ came into the world. All your sins were placed on Him, and He died for you. Now God offers you salvation as a free gift—a gift Christ paid for with His blood. Repent of your sins and ask Christ to come into your life today.

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  1. Craig Rensland says:

    thank you; I wont ever give up on Jesus. It’s not too late for me

  2. Grace says:

    I’ve been struggling with a sin for a very long time and I’m so Afraid God’s going to give up on me and let me go. I don’t want that to happen. I don’t know why I can’t stop but I want to get better I need help. I don’t want God to take me out because I wouldn’t change.

  3. Ryan H says:

    I am extremely scared. Everyone in my life has downplayed my sin ( Pornography ) and said it was no big deal. I felt I was abnormal so I believed them. I reached a place where I had no guilt and shame. I was no longer tempted to do my sin and felt no conviction I also was unable to love at all. I have been seeking God for ten months now and I still haven’t felt God’s forgiveness. I don’t know what to do. I just recently found out about the people in Jeremiah. I don’t feel God will ever return to me. My twin brother also got to this state. Please please can you pray for my twin brother and myself. I am scared!

  4. Charles says:

    God has allowed me to live with a broken heart for some time now. I don’t know if he gave up on me but I know he didn’t say he would leave me. I thank him though for life, maybe someday things will get better.

  5. scott says:

    I’ve been feeling soulless for a while now, a couple of months. I have had issues all my life with habitual lying and sexual immorality. I am married and have a two year old son and I have felt completely disconnected from them for the past couple of months. I have been self serving and not worried about others and I fear that even though I am scared in truth I am one of those that is without remedy. Please pray for me, all I want is to love my son like I used to, I used to enjoy spending time with him, now I just feel like I’m sitting there watching him without any feeling.